An international child abduction is when someone, such as the other parent or a grandparent, takes a child to another country without permission. If you are worried that the other parent may abduct your child, you can get a parenting order to try to stop them. If your child has already left Canada, get legal help right away.
Call 911 if you or your children are in immediate danger.
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Need to know
- An international child abduction is when someone takes a child to another country without permission.
- The person may show warning signs that they are planning to abduct your child out of Canada.
- You can get a parenting order to stop the person from taking your child.
- If your child has already left Canada, you may be able to get help returning your child under the Hague Convention.
What is an international child abduction
An international child abduction is when someone takes a child to another country without permission and, by doing so, breaches a court order or another person’s parenting and decision-making rights. The person taking the child may be a parent, stepparent or another person with guardianship rights, such as a grandparent.
Child abduction is a crime in Canada, but the situation is different when someone abducts your child to another country. The other country’s laws and processes apply. Authorities in the other country are usually responsible for dealing with the abduction.
If your child has already left Canada
If someone has already taken your child out of Canada, call 911 and get legal help right away.
If you feel safe doing so, try to communicate with the other person. You may be able to reach an agreement to return your child to Canada. You can communicate by phone, email, text or online message. You can also communicate with the other person through a friend or family member, a lawyer, the police or a mediator.
Getting a child back to Canada can be long and complicated. While trying to talk with the other person, you may want to start the legal process too.
Start the legal process
The Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction (or simply the Hague Convention) is an international treaty about child abductions. Countries that have signed it agree to help quickly return children under 16 when someone wrongfully takes them to a country other than the one where they usually live (called the country of habitual residence). Find a list of countries that have signed the treaty on the Hague Conference (HCCH) website.
If your child is in a country that has signed the Hague Convention, you can ask the Alberta Government for help returning them. See the process below.
If your child is in a country that is NOT part of the Hague Convention, call the police and get legal help right away. The process of bringing your child back to Canada will depend on the laws of the country your child is in. You may also want to get legal help in the other country.
First, contact Alberta Justice (a government department). They are the central authority in Alberta under the Hague Convention.
- Contact the Edmonton office if you live north of Calgary.
- Contact the Calgary office if you live in Calgary or south of Calgary.
Find contact information for these offices on the HCCH’s list of central authorities.
The staff at Alberta Justice will help you decide whether you can apply under the Hague Convention. They’ll then give you information about how to apply and work with the central authority in the other country. The court in the other country decides whether to order the return of your child.
To apply under the Hague Convention, all the following must be true:
- your child is younger than 16
- your child usually lives in Canada
- by taking your child out of Canada, the other person violated a court order or your parenting and decision-making rights
When deciding whether to order the other person to return your child, the court in the other country looks at:
- how long your child has been in the other country
- if your child has been in the other country for 12 months or more, whether your child is settled there
- whether returning your child to Canada would seriously harm them
- whether your child is mature enough to decide they don’t want to return to Canada
The court in the other country can only order the other person to return your child to Canada. The court will not make an order about parenting time and decision-making issues, such as who your child will live with. Apply in an Alberta court for an order about parenting time and decision-making responsibility.
Learn more about applying under the Hague Convention on the Court of King’s Bench website (scroll partway down the page).
It’s also a good idea to get legal help before you apply, as the process is complicated.
If you’re with your child in the other country
Do not try to take your child back to Canada without permission.
If you do not have permission from the other person or the authorities in the other country, taking your child back to Canada may be a crime. Authorities in the other country may arrest or deport you if you try to leave with your child.
Other steps to take
Get help from the Canadian government:
- Contact Consular Services at Global Affairs Canada. They can assign a consular case management officer to help you with your case. Call 1-800-387-3124 (toll-free from Canada and the United States) or +1-613-996-8885 (call collect where available).
- If you are in the other country, contact the Canadian embassy or consulate in that country. Find a list on the Government of Canada website. You can also submit an online form to ask for emergency help.
Get legal help in the other country. A lawyer in that country will be more familiar with the laws and processes that apply to your child’s situation.
If you think someone may abduct your child out of Canada
If you are worried that someone may take your child out of Canada without permission, there are steps you can take to try to stop this from happening.
While an international child abduction can happen to anyone, the risk is often greater if the other parent:
- is financially independent
- does not have strong ties to Canada
- has citizenship in or strong ties to another country
- has immigration problems in Canada
The end of a relationship is also a high-risk time. The other parent’s behaviour could worsen if your relationship recently ended or they believe you plan to end the relationship. This time is especially dangerous if you’ve experienced coercive control or other forms of abuse. The risk of violence can stay higher for at least two years after separation. Get help making a safety plan by calling 211 to connect with supports in your area. If the other parent has harmed you or you believe they may do so, you can apply to the court for a protection order.
Watch for warning signs
The other person may show warning signs that they are planning to leave the country with your child. Trust your instincts. Do not dismiss a gut feeling. Think about what you have seen or gone through that concerns you.
The following behaviours may be signs a person may abduct your child:
- They threaten to take your child to another country.
- They threaten to take your child away from you or say you will never see your child again if you leave the relationship or end the marriage.
- They control your money, such as by not letting you take out money, moving money to another account you cannot access or hiding money. This is an especially serious sign if their control has recently increased or changed.
- Something changes suddenly. For example, they quit their job, sell their property, close their bank accounts or end their lease.
- They apply for documents for your child without your consent, such as a passport, birth certificate or travel visa.
- They hide passports, birth certificates, ID or other documents, or they say these documents are lost or destroyed.
- They show a pattern of coercive control. Take coercive controlling behaviour seriously even if there are no obvious signs the other person will abduct your child.
- They’ve started encouraging your child to think badly of you or to “choose” them as a preferred parent.
- They stalk or control your movements. Examples include demanding to know you or your child’s every move, unexpectedly showing up to your child’s school or daycare, or tracking your movements without your consent.
- They’ve previously tried to remove your child from your care. Examples include taking your child from school or daycare without notice or permission, or not returning your child at the end of their parenting time.
Gather evidence
Gather as much evidence as you safely can. You will need to show this evidence to the court when you ask for a parenting order.
Below are examples of evidence you can collect:
- Written evidence: Text messages, emails, social media messages or posts, notes or letters, etc. The best evidence is the other person clearly saying they will take your child out of Canada. However, indirect threats are still evidence.
- Ties to the other country: The other person’s immigration status in Canada, citizenship in the other country, phone records showing frequent contact with people in the other country, or money transfers to a person or bank account in the other country. Or, any other evidence that shows the person has strong ties to the other country, especially if those ties have increased recently.
- Warning signs: If you have seen or gone through any of the warning signs listed above, write down what happened, when it happened, who said what and any other details. This can include questions from friends or family or things your child said that concerned you.
Get a parenting order
Apply for a new or updated parenting order right away to try to stop the other person from leaving Canada with your child. You can ask the court for an urgent parenting order without notifying the other person.
Learn more about the process for getting a court order on the Get or respond to a court order page.
You can ask the court to include the following in your parenting order to prevent abduction:
- You are the only parent who can travel with your child and make decisions about travel for your child.
- The other person may not take your child outside of the city where you live. (If the court doesn’t agree with this, at the very least, the order should clearly restrict your child’s travel outside of Canada.)
- You hold your child’s identification or travel documents, including their birth certificate and passport. If the other person already has your child’s passport, they must give it to you.
- You are the only parent who can apply for identification or travel documents for your child, including their birth certificate and passport.
- Law enforcement can enforce the order. (This is called a police enforcement clause, and the police or RCMP may not enforce the order without it.)
Depending on the situation, you may also want to ask the court to include one or both of the following in the order:
- You have sole decision-making responsibility for your child.
- The other parent may only have supervised parenting time with your child.
Ask the court for several certified copies of the order. Always keep one copy of the order with you and one at home.
Share certified copies of the order as follows:
- Bring a copy to any police station and ask them to upload it to the Canadian Police Information Centre (CPIC) database. This allows the police, RCMP, Canada Border Services Agency (CBSA) and other law enforcement agencies to view the order online.
- Give a copy to a person in charge at your child’s school, daycare or any other place that cares for your child. Make sure they understand what it says and what to do if someone tries to abduct your child.
- If your child is under the age of 16, give a copy to Passport Canada and ask them to add your child’s name to the passport system lookout list. This will alert Passport Canada staff to take extra care if they receive a passport application for your child and to check that you allowed it. Your child will stay on the list until they turn 16, when they can apply for an adult passport on their own. Visit any passport office or Passport Canada’s website.
Hot tip
Your child can still have a healthy relationship with the other person, even if you alone make the important decisions.
The court may say the other person needs your consent for things, such as to travel. You must balance protecting your child from harm (including abduction) with supporting a safe, healthy relationship with the other person. A court order that prevents abduction does not cut the other person out of your child’s life unless the other person may harm your child.
Stay alert
Keep up-to-date information that will help identify and find your child in case someone takes them out of Canada:
- your child’s current height and weight
- recent photographs of your child
- current addresses of the other person’s family and friends – both in Canada and the other country
- certified copies of legal documents about your child
- contact information for Canadian diplomatic offices (embassies, consulates, high commissions) in the other country
Learn more about international child abductions
- “International Child Abduction” LawNow article by Max Blitt
- Missing Children Society of Canada document about international child abductions
- Government of Canada’s guide for parents affected by international child abductions
- How to request emergency help outside Canada
Potential issues
You don’t know where your child is.
Call the police and get legal help immediately. Contact the other person and their friends or family members who may know where your child is.
If you believe your child is in another country, you can contact Consular Services at Global Affairs Canada for help: 1-800-387-3124 (toll-free from Canada and the United States) or +1-613-996-8885 (call collect where available).
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